Before I lay out how I meet old Latina women near me, there’s one thing that needs to be clarified. That one thing is that “old”, as it pertains to women in the United States and Canada, has a different meaning in Latin American countries.
In Mexico, for instance, traditionally, a girl will be deemed eligible for marriage at fifteen years of age. It’s her “quinceanera,” pronounced keen-see-aira, a coming-out party of sorts that celebrates that fact. Families are large, birth control in years past was difficult to come by, and abortion was not available.
So while the age of fifteen is a benchmark, it was typical for the majority of available women to be married off before they reached their twenties.
Once they reached their twenties, time was running short because in traditional Latin American culture, when a girl reached her “late” twenties, she was considered “old”. Old habits die hard, too, so this isn’t ancient history.
Single Latina Women Are Considered Old In Their Mid 20s
This is because, to this day, a single woman in her late twenties and certainly in her thirties is for sure considered old by a young man on the lookout for a wife. Then if she has children and is single, “it’s over .”
She might be able to land a date from time to time, but if she’s waiting for a marriage proposal to come her way, it’s pretty much a lost cause.
So there are a lot of old Latin women near me, but I just didn’t realize it. So the next step was to learn how to meet them. I had pretty much had about enough of the local hometown girls. After my second divorce, I came to terms with the fact that the problem was me.
I was looking for love in all the wrong places. Then given the sky-high divorce rate in western countries, I definitely wasn’t alone.
So there was no way I was going to go through a third divorce, and when a friend enlightened me about old Latina women, it gave me new hope. I just had to come up with a plan to meet them.
Latino Music Events and Shows Are Chock Full With Them
Just like in the United States or Canada, there are several genres of popular music in Mexico. The reason I refer to Mexico here is because of its eclectic music scene. What’s popular in one state might not be so popular up north near the border.
But it’s all good. It might take a little getting used to, but once you do, you’ll find it’s great to listen to. It’s all dance music, too, which is another plus and just like back in the 70s and 80s Mexican music is filled with stories of romance and love. Then, believe it or not, they even write, record, and promote songs about marriage.
Mexican popular bands regularly tour the United States, and have been doing so for some time now, and they’re big events in the Mexican community. Your problem is they’re not being advertised on the radio stations or media sites that you watch or listen to.
Old Latin women flock to these events for two reasons. The first reason is cause they love the music and love to dance. Then reason number two is they’re on the hunt for boyfriend material.
Someone just like you, but if you’re not there, you’re not going to meet them. So take a little time to look online to see if any of these music events are coming to your stomping grounds in the near future.
Check Out the Local Junior College
The secret is now out that the local Junior College near you has always been a great place to look for women. It’s an open campus, so you don’t need any type of membership or student ID card to simply park your car in the parking lot and head on in.
They all have a dining room and a common outdoor area where the students gather to socialize around lunchtime.
Then there’s always the library, but the problem there is that it’s difficult to strike up a conversation in the library. But at least in the library, eligible Latino women are stationary targets.
So you can get a good look at them, make a little eye contact, perhaps a quick “hello” to test the water. Then, later on, in the common area, it’s a given that you two already met; the ice is already broken, so beyond that, it’s easy to strike up a conversation.
Make Sure To Dress Casually At a College These Days
There is, however, a couple of unwritten rules for scouting for old Latino women on a college campus. First of all, don’t overdress. Casual dress is the norm these days on a junior college campus. Then another rule to remember is that timing means everything.
Lunchtime is best for obvious reasons, so if you arrive late or early in the day, you’re most likely going to encounter sparse pickings. Then another hotspot on college campuses is out in the common area in front of the female dorms.